I Have A Deep Adoration For Will and Jada
They are a POWER COUPLE and because of that, for the almost 30 years of their marriage, the media has found almost every way to attack them.
But I adore them so much. I admire their relationship, their family, and their openness. They bring a perspective that is so far beyond many people’s understanding that people have a hard time properly defining it.
They take a couple quotes and try to define their whole almost 30 years of marriage like their mindset in their 20s would be the same mindset as in their 50s. They would rather listen to others tell Will and Jada’s story and take their definition and word for it, instead of actually hearing it from Will and Jada themselves.
They have a mentality that most people don’t obtain. The growth mentality. They are constantly trying to become better than they were yesterday. They know how to admit their mistakes, hold themselves accountable, and to heal. They understand that a lot of their actions and behaviors are a result of trauma and they work to break and rebuild their connections that have been created as a result of that trauma.
“I want that real love, darkskinned, Aunt Viv love that Jada and that Will love” — J. Cole
They firmly believe in “Til death do us part” and divorce is not, and will never be on the table. They have decided to love each other through any and all things. They have found the meaning of true unconditional love. They have hurt each other time and time again to the point that they know that together, they can get through anything.
To me that’s what marriage is all about. Forget the societal definition of marriage. Marriage is finding someone who has committed themselves to loving you no matter what you go through, no matter how hard it gets. Marriage is always having someone who is there to support, love and encourage you even when the entire world has turned their back on you because they know who you are. Marriage is recognizing that everyone is broken in some sort of way, that everyone comes with flaws, and everyone makes mistakes. Marriage is choosing to love that person despite their brokenness, flaws, and the mistakes they make. Marriage is a partnership, a team, where both parties hold each other accountable for showing up as the best version of themselves. Marriage is finding someone you could never give up on because you know deep in your heart that you would never find a better match.
It took Jada and Will 20+ years to figure this out. 20+ years of making a commitment to love each other before they found out how to communicate, how to heal from their traumas, how to love each accordingly, and how to create an everlasting love. 20+ years to get it right and now they have a bond that can never be broken.
Watch them talk about their relationship and what they have endured over the years:
Becoming Mr. & Mrs. Smith(Part 1): https://fb.watch/c4kTKBAmOl/
Our Unique Union(Part 2): https://fb.watch/c4kXnjsEb8/
I can’t stand all of the hate that we show towards people who have done nothing more than just try to live. How many violent acts has Will actually performed in the amount of time he has been an actor? The way people have talked down on, disrespected, and completely trashed Jada in the media due to the “entanglement” issue, which was not infidelity, is asinine. If I was Will, I would be ready to break too. He is just tired of all of this hate toward his amazing and beautifully stunning wife. Pressure busts pipes.
I aim to have a love as unconditional as Will and Jada’s.